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Hi, it’s Aine. This one’s a biggie for me. When I look back at years of being an employee, an entrepreneur, a founder - the trap of shallow work and its illusion of productivity probably held me back more than anything else. It’s that pattern of constantly moving a few things on your calendar, checking emails, sending the easy replies, reorganizing tasks, checking messages again, scrolling for info you suddenly decided could be useful… It feels productive and busy and somewhat satisfying, but all the important stuff ends up sitting there untouched. Why we stay so busy with things that don't move the needleWhen your brain is already carrying a lot - too many tasks, options, unknowns, and decisions - it starts making quick calculations: ‘What can I do that will give me a sense of progress without requiring too much effort, uncertainty, or risk?’ Shallow work - checking email, rearranging tasks, moving calendar blocks - gives us:
The bigger work - writing, building, deciding - asks more of us:
That kind of work draws more heavily on the brain systems involved in planning, holding information in mind, and choosing where to direct limited attention. When the task is uncertain, demanding, or high-stakes - and its payoff is delayed instead of being an instant reward - you have to find a way to keep going without tangible reassurance that the effort is working. So it makes sense that you default to things that offer faster feedback, clearer completion/end points, and less uncertainty. You end up with a day full of micro-wins that never quite move the thing that matters. Instead of trying to force more willpower, the solution is in finding ways to reduce uncertainty, effort, and perceived risk around the important work: Name what matters, shrink the first step, and give your brain a clear, easy starting point. Here’s a quick writing experiment (3 - 5 minutes)Remember you have to write it, not just think it, in order for it to work. Just grab a pen or start typing. Write:“Today, the easier/quicker/simpler actions I keep doing instead of more important work are…” Exs: moving tasks and meetings around, checking email and messages, re‑organizing lists or boards, tweaking plans, scrolling or researching random things that ‘could be’ useful.
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Brain science based, super quick writing prompts to get unstuck, think clearly, and follow through - so you can close the gap between what you're capable of and how your days actually go. Stop losing time and energy to the same loops, avoidance, and mental spin - and then use those shifts to build what’s next.
In this week’s newsletter: The gap between intention and action An experiment to cut down on self-negotiation Corporate workshops Coming in December: the book! Hi, it's Aine. How much time have you spent negotiating with yourself today? You’ve got a solid idea of what needs to be done, and you’ve probably even organized and planned for it. But you keep revisiting exactly what to work on, whether to start, when a task really needs to be completed, whether something else should come first, or...
In this week’s newsletter: The problem with thinking your way to certainty Self-trust + decision-making An experiment for when you're circling a decision Hi, it’s Aine. Sometimes we keep thinking about a decision because we need to gather more information. There are also times when we have enough information to make a reasonable choice, but we keep going back over it anyway. We reconsider all our options, look for other angles, ask people’s opinions, or start imagining new things that could...
In this week’s newsletter: The science behind interruptions and context-switching A quick writing experiment to help you reset Event updates Hi, it’s Áine. All day long we move between projects, messages, meetings, errands, responding to people in our life who need things, and then back to our projects, in what feels like a never-ending loop. Even though I’m technically in charge of my own time these days, one fun thing I’ve carried with me from chaotic employment experiences is an affinity...