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Hi, it’s Áine. Here's what's in this week's newsletter:
New articlesThis week I posted an article on the brain science behind why writing helps - it's a deeper look at what’s actually happening when writing shifts us out of our heads and back into action. You can read it here. I also added a new piece on task avoidance with a step-by-step protocol for getting things done. Access that one here. In-person San Diego workshop scheduledIf you're local to San Diego, join me for Fix Your Day: Brain Science x Writing to Get Unstuck and Move Forward, Wednesday, June 17 from 11:45 AM – 12:30 PM, at Ansir Innovation Center. We’ll look at the most common friction points inside high-output days - task avoidance, rapid context-switching, reactive loops, scattered attention - and what your brain is doing in each of those states. Then we’ll run 3–6 minute protocols that quickly move you out of each pattern. Registration link is here. If you're not able to make it to the workshop, I also collaborate to bring JournalingFix to companies and communities, virtually and in-person. Reach out if you'd like to learn more. Science Snapshot: Why decisions can feel stickyI've been hearing a lot on podcasts and interviews about the power of quickly making decisions and moving on them. So I thought it might be useful to take a look at some of the science behind decision-making:
Use this to work through decision frictionUse this when you’ve got a decision that keeps taking up space, whether it's a reply, a next step, a purchase, a plan, a boundary, or a direction. Write: describe the decision you're stuck on or circling. Why this works That shift from vague mental circling to a bounded, written choice is often enough to release the background tension and free up attention for real work. Hope this gives you one small thing to experiment with this week, — Áine |
Brain science based micro-writing prompts to get unstuck, think clearly, and follow through - so you can close the gap between what you're capable of and how your days actually go. Stop losing time and energy to the same loops, avoidance, and mental spin - and then use those shifts to build what’s next.
Hi, It’s Aine. This week’s newsletter is a longer one. Take what’s useful and save the rest for when you need it. Last week, a friend mentioned feeling weird about invoicing a client because she enjoys doing the work so much and charging for it didn’t feel right. In the same hour, a group convo turned to why it’s often so hard for people to accept compliments. And another friend mentioned a challenge around the idea of accepting love. All three chats ended up moving to the same question: Why...
In this week’s newsletter: The brain science behind perfectionism Why perfectionism can feel rational and productive (even when it’s holding us back) A quick fix for when it’s slowing things down New articles on Substack to check out Hi, it's Aine. The other day, the AI platform I was working in told me my standards are too high and I have a problem with perfectionism (does it say this to everyone? 🤨). I don't think of myself as a perfectionist, but I care about quality and I like to make...
Hi, it’s Áine. I used to have a lot of shoulds in my life. I should make that appointment. I should follow up with them. I should start that project. I should go to that thing. If you, too, have a lot of shoulds, this might help. It turns out that when we think and say these types of "should" things, our brains hear a threat. “Should” usually carries two signals at once: That we’re failing some standard (we’re not enough yet). That we have a vague instruction with no clear first step. That...