This week’s JournalingFix newsletter: Hi, it’s Áine. You know those brilliant ideas we all get when we’re in the shower, on a walk, driving, pretty much anywhere we can’t do something about them? They’re so sharp and obvious in the moment. I always think, “There’s no way I’ll forget this.” Then later I sit down, open my laptop, and… nothing. Here’s what’s happening and a quick writing fix. Your brain doesn’t just remember information. Context and internal state become part of the retrieval cue. In the shower, you’re relaxed, a little bored, not scrolling, not performing. At your desk, you’re in “perform and respond” mode: screens, notifications, other people’s expectations. Different state = different retrieval cues = worse recall. So it’s not that “the idea is gone” or “your memory is bad.” Next time you have a half‑remembered idea that felt important but won’t fully come back, try this.You can type or write by hand - but the key is to write, not just think about it. Step 1 - Write “Where I was when this felt clear was…” Include as much description as you can: Location, time, what you were doing, what was going on in the environment around you. Step 2 - Write “What my energy and focus was like then…” Step 3 - Write “The part of the idea that’s still clear and how I might use it is…” Step 4 - Write “Next time I work on this idea, the first step is…” You’re doing two things at once: You're recreating enough of the original state for your brain to find more of the idea - and leaving breadcrumbs for next time. In memory research, this is called using retrieval cues: small pieces of the original context that make the full memory easier to access again. You don’t need to “capture everything” perfectly. You just need to leave a big enough breadcrumb trail that the idea has somewhere to land when you have time to work on it. Over time, you’re also building a running log of partial ideas with clear next steps, so you’re never starting from a blank page - you’re just following the breadcrumbs you already left for yourself. It makes sitting down to work feel less like starting from zero and more like picking up a thread you’ve already laid out. – Áine |
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In this week’s newsletter: The brain science behind perfectionism Why perfectionism can feel rational and productive (even when it’s holding us back) A quick fix for when it’s slowing things down New articles on Substack to check out Hi, it's Aine. The other day, the AI platform I was working in told me my standards are too high and I have a problem with perfectionism (does it say this to everyone? 🤨). I don't think of myself as a perfectionist, but I care about quality and I like to make...
Hi, it’s Áine. Here's what's in this week's newsletter: Articles live on Substack New public workshop scheduled Why decisions can feel sticky Use this when you're struggling with a decision New articles This week I posted an article on the brain science behind why writing helps - it's a deeper look at what’s actually happening when writing shifts us out of our heads and back into action. You can read it here. I also added a new piece on task avoidance with a step-by-step protocol for getting...